| HAPP NEW YEAR!
My resolution? To save money and move as farrrrr away as i can affiord to...ASAP. |
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| MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!
=] <3 |
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| It's been AGES since I've updated eh xanga-ers?
As many of you already know, I've returned to New Hampshire for the time being, as i've been unable to get a loan to return to college. Justin might be joining me in returning to NH for the same reason...(he and i were attending the same college)
I've been working at Banana Republic, but my season there is ending so I'm looking to transfer to Old Navy if they'll take me...(which I'm hoping they will).
Brandon and I broke up back in August...which shouldn't be news to most of you. It happens and I'm over it.
It's kinda strange being home I won't lie...Most of the people I used to hang out with don't live in this area anymore as they've either moved, or just gone off to college. It makes for a boring life when there are no local friends to hang around with haha. I've managed to find a few people, but meh. Most of them aren't the most positive of influences. I spose I need to work on the type of people I surround myself with...
So what's new with YOU guys =)?
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| what exactly does that MEAN.
Friends are said to be an extension of your family. The part of your family you get to choose,
I've always thought of friends as being people whom you can spend time with, talk to, who care about/love/like you to some degree at least, or at least put up with you, and accept you for you, because, afterall, why the hell else would they be considered friends?
if this is so then...how is it people "lose" friends?
"i screwed up i lost a friend" ...how does that work? Wouldn't that not make them friends in the first place?
Is it not our jobs as "friends" to accept our friends for who they are as people, forgive their mistakes, and understand that we don't have to agree with everything they say or do to still. befriend them?
even if they do something to offend or hurt you....is it not our job to forgive, and look past their faults as human beings? Even if they're not wanting to continue the friendship, is it not our job to still be there for them should they decide they need us or change their mind? Is that not our duty as human beings?
Once you accept somebody into your life as your friend and take on the responsibility of being there for them and loving them as a person, you can't abandon them. That's like backing down from a commitment, you can't do that. That's not fair .
how the hell does the whole friendship thing work anyway?
unconditional love and caring anyone?
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